Your Breakup Story
Most people, after experiencing a breakup, want nothing more than to move on and forget everything that reminds them of their ex, especially the breakup in particular. What most people don’t realize is that their breakup story is full of experiences and lessons that they should take away and store away in their minds so that they know better the next time around.
Your breakup story is unique, and something that you should celebrate, not something that you should shun and try to forget. Of course, you shouldn’t celebrate the fact that you broke up (unless, you know, you were in a bad, abusive type of relationship, which in that case, good for you), but rather, celebrate whatever lessons you took away from being with that person and the breakup itself. Remember that your breakup story is yours and yours alone; even if other people would have a similar story to yours, you will never meet another person that will have a breakup that is alike in all aspects to yours.
Your breakup story is going to be an integral part of you. It’s going to be a great story to tell over dinner with your closest friends, because there are times when the most epic stories are those that begin with, “Hey, remember that time when I was with…?” Your breakup story is going to serve as a reminder for you the next time that you feel that tingling in your heart for another person. You’re going to remember the mistakes that you made in your last relationship, especially the ones that directly contributed to the breakup, and you’re going to find the resolve not to do them again. Your breakup story is going to serve as a milestone for you. This was the person that you were before the breakup, and this is the person that you are now after it.
You’re stronger and smarter than you once were, and you can only become a better person for yourself and for the people around you. Your breakup story is going to serve as a way to detoxify your life. Break all those bad habits that you learned, and cry out all those toxic feelings and thoughts that you have left inside of you. Your breakup story is going to serve as a source of inspiration for you. This time, you’re not going to settle for some douchebag or some easy slut that throws themselves at you; rather, you’re going to wait for that wonderful person who deserves your love, and deserves to be with you.
Don’t hide your breakup story away in the dusty part of your memory where it will serve no purpose. Use it! Learn from it! Laugh over it! Cry over it! No matter what you choose to do with your breakup story, the fact is, it is a part of you, and you’ll be better off benefiting from it rather than denying that it exists in the first place. Claim your breakup story as your own, and you’ll be all the better a person for doing so.
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