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On Bad Boyes and Nice Guys: When the Man Wants to Please a Woman
Should a Man Relate to a
Woman on Her Level?
The following is an excerpt from the book, Why Women Love
Bastards, by Tigress Luv, which can be found at http://whywomenlovebastards.com
Face it, women are attracted to the bad boy image.
Unlike the many, many 'no more mr. nice guy' books, the answer to
getting and keeping women is not to become more aggressive. Sheesh!
What some 'lead-me-by-the-nose' Nice Guys will believe! Let me tell
you, there are some really aggressive Nice Guys, and they still score a
big, fat ZERO on a woman's "gotta have" list. Aggression has nothing to
do with being a Real Man, and is not the answer to
becoming the Bastard That Women Love!
And neither is trying to mold yourself into being just like her!
You must allow her to be a woman, but don't twist yourself into a
pretzel to try to understand and relate to her on her level. Forget all
the so-called 'expert' relationship advice you may have gotten and all
the self-help books you may have read, and purge every Oprah and Dr.
Phil show memory that you may have stored in your brain's database.
Contrary to popular belief women really don't want a man that understands them, makes cute little sympathetic sighing noises as she rambles on
and on, or changes his manly ways and learns how to grow a flower
garden because she likes flowers. She doesn't want a man who runs the
water while he relieves himself lest she hears his tinkling noise and
becomes offended, and she especially doesn't want a man that can sit
there for hours and talk about feelings and who's
She also doesn't want a man that holds her hand while flitting through
every store in the mall, dutifully carrying her bags and packages or
meekly trailing behind her as she picks up one item after another... "oh,
isn't this dress just so 'cute'...? Millie has one similar to it, you
know? Oh, and did I tell you what Millie told me about Linda? Well! It
seems that Linda was at Eva's place the other night and she told Judy
that Bill had gone down to Mike's and..."
She doesn't want too much equal power in her relationships, and she,
especially, doesn't want the higher power (even though she thinks she
does, she will lose respect for a man that gives it to her). And if she
needs someone who understands her as a woman let her call her
girlfriends, as you just can't do that! You are a man and you only know
how to be as a man.
She also doesn't want little love letters left out for her to swoon
over - unless you have screwed up. In that case, a love (apology)
letter then gives her the hope that she is making some headway or
advancement in her genetically pre-programmed efforts to 'change' you.
(P.S. boys, this is what keeps her hooked to you.)
So men, make sure that you do carry out those little manly screw ups
(like being insensitive) now and then so you can be all humble and
apologetic :) ... you don't want to be too perfect, but you do want her
to think that she's making some progress at reforming you into a woman!
Are you a Bad Boy, a
Nice Guy, or the Bastard That Women Love? For help with this issue
please visit Why Women Love Bastards at http://whywomenlovebastards.com or for help with any breakup or relationship issue, please visit The Lifted Hearts Breakup
Support Forums & Community at http://liftedhearts.com
The above article is
an excerpt from the book, Why Women Love Bastards.
The book can be found at http://whywomenlovebastards.com
published by Tigress Luv
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