How To Win A Woman's Heart - 10 Tips To Increase
By Jane Roder
1. If you have just come out of a
relationship give yourself time to reflect on your behaviours and heal.
Dont rush into another relationship to prevent the pain and emptiness
from resurfacing as rebound relationships have a high failure rate. Think
about what thoughts and behaviours you need to change to get a different
result next time round.
2. Never say I will meet you
there when starting to date a woman, (except for the first getting
to know you coffee), at the womans request or when there are
unusual circumstances) as you will lose mega points before you even get to
3. Dont rush in and say I
love you and be over the top with compliments, particularly in the
first couple of months. Pace yourself and keep some mystery and tension.
Besides, the lust you feel may vanish quickly if you suddenly realize you
have nothing in common with this woman. Dont build up a womans
hopes and play with her heart before you know how you really feel about
4. Dont play the perfect gentleman
with all the romantic games of love and compliments just for sexual favours,
then suddenly disappear in the morning, in a week, or in a month with no
explanation or future contact. This is manipulative, cold and calculating,
and a cruel way to treat women. Never play with a womans emotions and
heart for your own selfish motives and hidden agendas.
5. Dont take your girlfriend
or partner to the movies and go to sleep during the show.
6. If you take your girlfriend or partner
for breakfast or lunch, never spend a large part of the time you have together
reading the paper or talking on the phone, as this will be very hurtful.
Value these times and see them as opportunities for deep caring conversation.
Remember, conversation is one of the main inroads to a womans
7. If you are watching something
unimportant on television, dont throw the womans desire for
conversation to the side for the sake of a minor television show. If it is
an important programme, ask her if it can wait, as you would like to finish
watching the program. If it can wait, be caring enough to tell her that you
will be right there for her in the ad breaks, or when the program finishes.
Always acknowledge her, otherwise she will feel hurt and dismissed. If it
is something urgent be prepared to sacrifice the program.
8. Whether newly dating or in a
relationship do not be aloof and secretive about where you are going, or
the things you are doing day to day. You do not need to share every minute
detail, but if you want your relationship to last you will need to share
your life and your friends with your woman so that she doesnt feel
excluded and left out in the cold.
9. Remember first impressions count
when you are meeting women. Watch your body language and put your shoulders
back. Be confident and real, and just relax and have fun.
10. When you are in a relationship,
regularly tell your partner how gorgeous she looks. Compliment her on the
things she does for you and her wonderful attributes. Do this no matter how
long you have been together. These words however must come from your heart
with genuine intent or it is a waste of time saying
Winning her heart has more to do with the man you are, than the way you treat her. To learn what kind of man attracts a woman read, "Women Really Do Love Bastards".
About the Author:
Roder is a published author of self help relationship books and ebooks. She
provides help and advice on relationship problems and has been seen on "Today
Tonight", "The Late Date Show 101.9 Fox FM", "The Age", "MX News", "Life
Magazine" and on www.singlespodcastingnetwork.com.
Jane can be contacted via her website www.relationship-remedies.com
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