and Valuable tips on how to win your ex back...ENJOY!...
Tips on How to Win Your Ex Back
by Tigress Luv & Glass
to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend or How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend:
Tips to Help You Stop Your Breakup and Get Back Together
you LOVE to get tips on how to get your ex back and how to get back
together with your ex and win them back for good? Of course, you would!
Well, now you can stop your
break up and you can get your ex
back in your arms - where they belong!
Wouldn't you love to have your
partner want to be with you, deeply in love with you, and happily
faithful by your side? Get the most valuable tips on re-uniting ever
everyone! This week I would like to offer you these Free and Valuable tips
on how to win your ex back...ENJOY!
WIN EX BACK AND GET BACK TOGETHER FREE TIPS:
YOUR EX'S SIDE OF THE BREAKUP
Make the effort to
comprehend your ex's perspective.
Take a good, long look at
all the things that are happening in his or her life and try to
recognize how the relationship may have not been fulfilling or
advantageous for them.
By truly understanding that
your ex is not out to hurt you, but rather to find their own personal
peace and happiness, may help you get through this painful event. Too
many people think that the cure to the pain caused by their breakup is
to 'get back together and win ex back'. In actuality, the cure to their
grief and their hurt is to understand and accept their ex's choices to
dissolve the relationship and to find forgiveness for their ex for
hurting them, and by learning to recognize their own grief triggers and
working through them on their own. Truly win ex back by seeing their
side to the breakup!
INDIFFERENCE AND DISINTEREST!
Apathy does a very uncanny
thing to our exes. It makes them wonder why we don't appear to care
that they are no longer in our lives. Consequently, they will begin to
feel quite alone, insignificant, and insecure without this
acknowledgment of them, and this creates in them an emotional need to
have you back in their lives, or to regain your love and acceptance
once more. So, ironically, one good way to win ex back is to not want
ELIMINATE THE SAD SACK
Stop hauling your bitter,
sad life story around with you everywhere you go. Studies find that
happy, smiling people are considered far more desirable to the opposite
sex. Think about it - are you drawn to depressed bitter people? No! And
why would your ex want to be around you if you are dragging your sack
of issues with you every single time they see you? By being beautiful
both inside and out and by getting rid of negativity you create a
certain radiance about you that is simply irresistible. Ironically,
almost all people who broke off a relationship said that the underlying
cause of the breakup was simply because the other party was too
demanding, depressing, needy, or miserably unhappy all the time,
creating a sense of unease and stress when they were around them. Their
partners no longer brought them joy.
So paint a smile on your
face and show them pearly whites! No matter how wretchedly unhappy you
probably feel inside at this sad time in your life try to put your
grief, bitterness, and sadness aside and morph into that magnetic,
radiant person that just emanates optimism and attracts people to them
like moths to a light. This happiness will go a long way to win ex back!
I know that it is hard to be
happy when your whole world is turned upside down without them by your
side. Most likely if your ex initiated the breakup they are handling it
better than you. They know that they could probably win you back if
they wanted, and they are not dealing with the pain of rejection or of
abandonment as you may be. Add to this, they might be in a 'pulling
away' mode, which takes some strategic actions on your side to get them
to come back around to wanting to be near you and
not 'away' from you. This is discussed more at Stop
Ending Relationships (http://endingrelationships.com), a more detailed study on
the best way to win ex back.
DON'T LOSE CONTROL OF
YOURSELF OR YOUR EMOTIONS
Negative emotions run high
during a breakup. However, if you display anger, blame, shaming, or
contempt you may just be reminding them of exactly why they chose to
leave the relationship.
Remain neutral, calm and in
control of your negative emotions. Display a true understanding,
patience, charm, and sweetness. After all, you want them to see that
there is quite a bit of value in being with you...you want to win them
back with charm and class so display some emotional intelligence!
SHOW YOU HAVE VALUE
Cease all the ugly begging,
sobbing, pleading, and blatant hopelessness. Don't phone them, send
them Hallmarks, letters or emails, or any kind of instant messenger or
text message. It will not only make you look unworthy and make you feel
pathetic, it will prove to them that you truly are of absolutely no
value to them. If you show your ex that you have no value without him
or her, your ex will only see that you, yourself, have 'zero' value period.
You will not win ex back this way - you will only end up making
yourself appear more unattractive in his or her eyes and push them even
farther away from you then they already are. Why validate to them that
their decision to end the relationship with you was the right one,
Totally, completely and
truly love you with all your might, heart, and soul. Your ex-boyfriend
or ex-girlfriend will only love and respect you that much
more if you truly love and respect you. Win ex back by
showing that you don't really need them back!
YOUR FREE ADVICE AND METHODS TO WIN EX BACK AND GET BACK TOGETHER FREE TIPS CONTINUED BELOW:
GROW, ENHANCE, IMPROVE UPON
AND THEN MOVE ON
Exercise, change yourself
for the better, improve your health, improve your outlook, improve your
mind. Improve your attitude!
Be and look your best!
Then move on with this new
you. Make them curious. Make them want to meet you all over again.
Remember, you ARE single
again. So get out there and enjoy being free. There is a world of
living waiting for you so have some fun! Win your ex back by being a
truly irresistible human being!
MYSTERY IS CAPTIVATING
Part of the strategy to grow
yourself involves becoming a whole new and better person - one they
want to be with and one you feel good about. Once you have improved on you you want to captivate them back to you. To keep him or her captivated
to you, you need to keep you hidden,
obscure, and unrevealed to them. You
need to keep some part of yourself forbidden territory - so completely
off limits to them that they can only imagine what mysteries abound.
People are mesmerized by a person's enchanting and bewitching mystery.
So, don't let the
'new-improved' you be an open book! Win ex back by being an enticing
BE TRUE TO YOUR GENDER
Men need to learn to be more
masculine and women need to learn to be more feminine. The more
feminine a woman is the more manly a man feels when he is with her -
and the more he will want to be with her. The more masculine a man is
around a woman the more she will feel feminine when around him and the
more she will desire to be with him. Stop trying to match the opposite
sex thinking that you are pleasing them that way and start getting back
in touch with your true identity.
Men, for more help with this
you definitely need to read WhyWomenLoveBastards.com and women must read, The
Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave! or ManMagnet.net because the way to win ex back is to make a man feel more
like a man or make a woman feel more like a woman.
Stop being their 'friend' if you ever want to be their lover! You can
find more information on how to stop being just a friend at http://friendtolover.com
Whether you curl up in a
ball and watch the world pass by or you get off your arse and join it,
things are going to be exactly the way they are going to be. So you
might as well enjoy life. It has the added benefit of making your ex
stand up and take notice of you again! Win ex back by not laying down
and dying from the loss of them in your life. Keep living, and keep
DON'T MEDDLE IN THEIR LIFE
It's none of your business
and will most likely hurt you - and your chances of re-uniting. Don't
ask your ex's family or friends about him or her. Don't drive by their
workplace. Don't give them your unsolicited advice or feedback.
Let them go and give them
back to themselves. You will be much more attractive this way, and you
will feel much better, too. Win ex back by allowing them to be who they
are without interfering in their life or tracking them like a stalker.
After all, who would want to be with a stalker?
DON'T APPEAR BURDENSOME BY
LACK OF SELF-RESPECT
As stated before, one's lack
of respect in oneself is a very unattractive quality. Learn to respect
yourself and do not hurt yourself by continuously placing yourself in
hurtful situations. The only person you need in your life to feel good
about you is you. Win ex back by respecting you.
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE - SO
Although it may have come as
a surprise to you when you suddenly found yourself 'single' again,
relationships do not crumble overnight. You must learn to be patient,
as regaining your love back is not going to happen overnight, either.
Win ex back by allowing time to come between the two of you!
Of course, these tips don't
work on everybody, and there may be more to your breakup and the issues
surrounding it than you know. Sometimes winning your ex back takes more
than simply following the above tips! We offered you these free tips on
how to win an ex back - but remember that these tips pertain to most
normal breakups, however your breakup may be unique and for this BETTER
TIPS ARE AVAILABLE AT 'HOW TO STOP A BREAKUP AND
GET AN EX BACK (http://stopabreakup.com)'
IF ALL ELSE FAILS: TIME HEALS
Remember the one who invests
more in the relationship is the one who hurts the most and grieves the
longest, but time truly does heal all wounds. As I always say, "one-hundred
years from now it won't matter anyway".
Today's Inspiration, Poem
"Stop being a bitch if you want him to hitch: Many
relationships fail because women tend to do too much 'expecting' and
not enough 'accepting'" ~Tigress Luv
Prayer or Thought:
for today stop 'expecting' things from your partner and learn to accept
and let go of those little things about your partner that drive you
mad. Partners are often times way too hard on each other. Just for
today tolerate and accept all those little quirks and faults in your
partner. You will find that your relationship will be smoother,
peaceful, more loving and more fulfilling than ever before.."
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Thank you for reading this week's newsletter! I HOPE YOU ENJOYED MY FREE TIPS AND ADVICE; I hope it helps you win your ex back and get back together with him or her. As always, we welcome
feedback and new ideas for future newsletters.
Have a great week everyone!
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