Breakup advice
breaking up home breaking up books sad love poems End of relationship quotes Contact Glass Slipper Publishing
Breakup advice blog and newsletterBreakup advice articlesArticles on narcissistic partnersSad Love PoemsEnding Relationship QuotesBreaking up advice and relationship, dating advice ebooks and booksBreakup support forums and communityStopr or reverse your breakup, win ytour ex backDaily Breakup Inspirations and PrayersMending Broken Hearts FaceBook CommunityWatch our YouTube Breakup VideoStop or reverse your breakup, win your ex back

Catch him, keep him, win him backAbout Glass Slipper PublishingLinks for the broken heartedMending Broken Hearts Community on FaceBookJoin our mailing list!Daily Breakup Inspirations and PrayersBreakup support forums and communityStop or reverse your breakup, win your ex backWhat's new?

Win back your ex

Breaking up with a narcissist?

Best selling relationship books at Amazon

Stop or reverse a breakup, win your ex back

Glass Slipper Publishing's Sad Love and Breakup Poems and Poetry
by Glass Slipper Publishing (Join our mailing list by clicking here)

You can like us at our Mending Broken Hearts Page on FaceBook 


Advice on Relationship, Breakup, Commitmentphobia, Abuse, Codependency, Narcissism, and more..


When Love Ends

Unless you are one of those fortunate few who met their soulmate in grade school, married right out of high school, and spent the next 60 years in wedded bliss you are going to go through what millions before you have gone through, and what millions after you will go through - a broken heart. The pain experienced during a breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through it. While some simply shake the dust off and get right back into the dating game, others are left so devastated that they never date again, spending the rest of their life in bitter solitude. Why the difference? Could some of us just be stronger than others? Do some people love harder than others? Are some loves more connected than others?

For most of us who experience a breakup a normal grieving period will occur: Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally Acceptance. But for some, the grief and devastation are so severe that they end up hospitalized, and even suicidal. Others remain either bitter or so afraid of getting hurt that they never date again, closing off their hearts to just about everyone. Yet, some don't even grieve at all, subconsciously choosing to simply transfer their feelings for one person immediately onto that of another person in what is called a rebound relationship.

Why the variation? Well, a lot of it has to do with our loving style. There are many loving styles ranging from the very healthy, to the desperately needy. While one person may love another in a supportive and healthy way, another person may cling onto their mate simply as a way to fix what they imagine to be wrong with themselves. They use their partner as a method of dealing with their own imagined inadequacies or feelings of unworthiness - feeling good only as long as they are in the relationship. Others simply like the 'high' of being in love. This high becomes addictive to them and they hop from one relationship instantly into another - often times head-over-heels in love by the second date. They recklessly seek 'love' much as an addict will seek a 'fix', and are often so in need of being in love that they imagine their partners to have all the qualities they are looking for in a mate - whether their partners actually possess these qualities or not. Still others simply surrender themselves into their relationships quickly losing themselves and their own sense of individuality, becoming 'the relationship'. Should the relationship end, then shall they, too.

A healthy view of oneself, one's partner, and one's relationship is essential to withstanding the ups, and downs, in our eternal search for that special someone to share our lives with.

Article published by Glass Slipper publishing, the Breakup Gurus. For more breakup advice and to visit our breakup support forums please join us at the Lifted Hearts Breakup Support Forums & Community at http://liftedhearts.com.

Why did he break up with you?

Narcissistic Advice | Breakups Advice | Flip This Breakup | Bad Boys Keep the Girls

"One love isn't all consuming, but one heartbreak can be." ~Glass Slipper Publisihing

Stop a Break Up and Get Him or Her, Girlfriend or Boyfriend, Back,
and mend a broken heart and get over a break up - Stop Ending Relationships