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Don't Do These Things to Your Ex!
How to Treat the Ex
9 Things You Should Never Do To Your
For whatever reason, the relationship
you were in did not quite work out. After a prolonged session of tears and
fights, all went silent. Now, you are nurturing a broken heart and often
behaving erratically. But, whatever you do, always choose a path where your
dignity will not be compromised. You should never do the following to your
Even Diana from wheresinglesmeet.com never does the
- Be destructive: You are tempted to
make a bonfire of all your partners stuff that have been left behind
at your place from CDs to clothes. You cannot bear to have them around
as they represent the person. But, refrain from doing so. It will only make
you look childish and petulant. Instead, pack them up and get them delivered
to their place.
- Call up repeatedly: Never, especially
if you are the one whos been dumped. Maintain your dignity and move
on. Repeated SMS-S and missed calls will only worsen things. Besides, your
ex will now be doubly sure that his/her decision was actually for the best.
Dont give them that satisfaction. If they really care, they will call
up. And if they dont its best to end it now than linger on.
- Cut off their family: If you have had
a good rapport with their family, dont kill that as well. If you have
been dumped, chances are that their family will not side with you; blood
is after all thicker than water. So, dont expect anything, only maintain
a cordial relation. Maybe, later on they will realize that you would have
made a better partner for their child.
- Stalk them: If they are seeing someone,
who is that person or what are they doing together these questions
will keep coming to your mind. Learn to ignore them. All these will turn
you into a desperate psychological case. Beside, how do you benefit from
it? It will only make you even more sad and that doesnt solve your
problem in any way.
- Have scenes at work: All of us want
to project a professional image at work. So, this is a vulnerable spot for
us. Under such circumstances, the last thing one would want to have is a
psychological ex who is followings us around the place. Or even worse, giving
us a bad name. This not only harms your partner but also you; it spoils your
reputation and makes you look extremely unprofessional.
- Go for a relationship on the rebound:
This is the time when you are extremely vulnerable. As you are emotionally
disturbed, consciously or sub- consciously you will be looking for an anchor.
So, theres a big chance for you to get into a relationship which might
be completely wrong for you. Give it at least a year before you enter into
- Say you never really loved them: If
you didnt love them in the first place, what were you hanging on for?
Saying such things only make you look silly and immature.
- Spread rumours about them: If you want
to, confide in a close friend but never go around talking about it to all
and sundry. People will make all sorts of comments and that might give you
a wrong perspective of things. This will in the long run, make you feel even
more miserable. If your ex is actually a scum, others will find out sooner
- Sleep with your ex: Theres always
a temptation for this, but it is the ultimate for this, but it is the ultimate
mistake. It might rekindle hope temporarily and make it even more difficult
for you to come out of it when thins get even more nasty.
And that's how you treat the ex.
Hi I'm Recardo, a New York-based writer
and avid explorer on dating and relationship area. I love to help you develop
strategies and actions to improve your chances of connecting with the right
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