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I NEEEEED MY EX!
You Feel You Need Your Ex?...
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by Tigress Luv & OverABreakup.com
do we feel like we need another human being?
Certainly it is true that we may want someone in our life, but 'need'?
Hardly! This sense of need is an exaggeration, it's
a false emotion. Intense desire for someone or something creates an illusion of need.
When we miss our
ex-partners, or when we are trying to save a relationship, we
exaggerate the 'good' in them and in the relationship with them, and
when we are trying to get out of a relationship, we exaggerate the
'bad'. If you are the one that was 'dumped' (sorry) you may be
exaggerating the 'good' in your ex, while they may be exaggerating the
'bad' in you, or in a relationship with you. Sorry, but it's true. The
more you exaggerate their 'good', the more you may feel the false sense
of need for them, and the more they exaggerate
your 'bad' the more they may feel the false sense of need to
get away from you.
WE ALL have the
desire to be loved, to be wanted, to be approved of, and to be agreed
with. But that's all it is - a desire. We don't need to be loved,
wanted, approved of, or agreed with. And we all have the desire to be
with our loved ones, to make them happy, to feel them in our arms. But,
that too, is just a desire; we really don't need to be with them, to
make them happy, to feel them in our arms. It's just a desire.
We actually turn
people away from us by our believing that we 'need' them. We devalue
ourselves, taking away our credibility, our individualism, and our own
sense of self-esteem. We strip ourselves of our dignity. We lose our
more you need someone, the less likely they will
want to be there for you. You become 'work', an 'obligation', or a
'chore'. In fact, they will run just as fast and just as far away from
you as they can! They will feel like they are being pulled apart,
drained, suffocated, controlled, zapped, and consumed. They will never,
ever be free to feel their love for you because they will be in a
constant 'pulling away' mode. You actually turn someone against you when you 'need' them.
The above article
is an excerpt from our report, 'How to STOP a Breakup and Win an Ex Back',
which can found at: http://stopabreakup.com, and from the
Free From Their Spell' which can be found at http://breakfreefromtheirspell.com .
Inspiration, Poem or Quote:
My Heart Holds
Tigress Luv & Glass Slipper Publishing
You're still in
there, I agree
eyes; salty as the sea
I can feel you
trying to get out of me
All my exits have
there is no way
out; the doors are locked
for now I hold
the only key...
Why won't my
heart give exit to thee?
By Tigress Luv, 7-12-2009
Today's Prayer or
matter what happens in my day, I'll try to remember that nothing last
forever. If some good should come of my day I will embrace the joy
close to my heart and feel its glory. If some bad should come of my
day, I'll try to let it slide right by me and remember that, "this,
too, shall pass".
acting on temptation I'll stop and think first, and avoid doing
something I might later regret. I'll find healthy alternatives to bad
emotions. I'll touch another life in a positive way.
Today I'll try to
remember that this day is just for me, and I will never have the
opportunity again to shape this day into one that will be forever a
Thank you for reading this week's newsletter! As always, we welcome
feedback and new ideas for future newsletters.
Have a great week everyone!
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