relationships are not always easy. The truth is that the dating game is
often rather complicated...
WHO FEAR COMMITMENT'
Tigress Luv & Glass
Who Fear Commitment
Romantic relationships are not always easy. The truth is that the
dating game is often rather complicated, and there is always a risk of
getting hurt. One problem that women are often faced with is men who
fear commitment. When a woman gets involved with a man who fears
commitment, her relationship will eventually hit a dead end. At that
point she will be forced to either tolerate being in a relationship
that is not moving forward, or walk away. So how can a woman tell if
she is with a man who doesn't want to commit to her? If your man does
not see a future with you, there will be many warning signs.
In the Bedroom
A man who wants sexual intimacy without emotional commitment is likely
to prioritize sex in the relationship. He will want to spend most of
his time with you in the bedroom rather than going out on romantic
dates, or having deep conversations. The man who fears commitment might
be very attentive until you sleep with him, and then seem to lose
interest. Be wary of men who put too much focus on the sexual aspect of
What do you and your man talk about when you are together? Is the
conversation always fun and lighthearted, or do you talk about your
innermost feelings and core values? A man who is reluctant to commit
will not take the time to find out who you really are. That's because
your values, interests and feelings are not really important to him.
Nor will such a man wish to talk about the future or your relationship.
If you attempt to discuss where the relationship is headed, he will
change the subject or tell you he's not ready to commit. A man who is
not ready for commitment is unlikely to tell you he loves you, or
express any romantic sentiments. He will keep the conversations casual
and stick to topics that have nothing to do with love or romance.
Has your man introduced you to any of his family members? Has he asked
to meet your folks? A man who fears commitment is unlikely to want you
to meet his family, or get to know yours. Similarly he will not ask
questions about your family or tell you anything about his. A man who
is not ready to commit can do without the complications that arise from
getting to know your family, or vice versa. Hence he will probably keep
you separate from his family.
Friends and Socializing
A man who does not want to commit probably won't bother to introduce
you to his friends, or take the time to get to know yours. Instead he
will probably want to socialize separately. A man who is not interested
in committing is also likely to put his friends before you. He will
always prioritize spending time with them over hanging out with you.
When you do meet up with your man, sex will probably be on his agenda.
In a Box
If you are with a man who is afraid of committing to you, you'll
eventually begin to feel like a puppet in a box that he plays with when
it suits him. He will attempt keep his real life completely separate
from the time he spends with you. Hence you will feel used and
undervalued, which is not good for your self-esteem. If what you have
read in this article makes you think your man is afraid to commit, it
could be time to walk away and save yourself for an emotionally healthy
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Today's Inspiration, Poem
"When we repeatedly and consistently give to
another we must ask ourselves, are we trying to bribe them to love us?" ~ Tigress Luv, The Break Up Guru '
Prayer or Thought:
addicted to the CP, and his Phobia, we behave as though the love and
attention of another is only valid if we have to use high-pressure
methods to force it out of them. We forget that true love is given
freely, and along with that, the desire to be by one's side forever.
Face it, true love moves mountains to be with you.
If the CP really wanted you to be by his side forever, he would move
his mountain, not hide behind it as if it were a pair of apron strings."
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