'HOW TO GET YOUR EX-BF TO CALL'
Why Doesn't He Call? - How to Get Your Ex Back and Make Him Call You

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(A quick note from me: I apologize but this week's newsletter article (below) is not written by me. I have been out sick again. I do hope you enjoy the following article from the Lifted Hearts Network, though! You can always read my past newsletter articles at: http://tigressluv.com/breakupsupportblog.html

Tiggy [Tigress Luv])

So you've been seeing a guy for a few days, or weeks, or even months. You may have thought you were getting along great and maybe he was the one. Then he stopped returning your calls and texts. He's left you wondering 'why doesn't he call?'

First of all, you have to realize that it may not be you. Something may have come up in his life. He may have lost his job, someone in his family may have passed away, or something else happened that makes him want to keep to himself. Before you jump to conclusions, give him his space and eventually he may call again.

However, if you've waited and waited, and he still hasn't called, something is definitely wrong. Why doesn't he call?

Most girls try to fix whatever has gone wrong by calling him or texting him to keep communication going. Unfortunately, this can often have the opposite effect and make him call you even less. Before you pick up the phone and call or text him again, think about what you're doing.

Bottom line: He just may not be that into you. It sounds clichéd, but that is the most likely scenario. It may be that he's into a certain type of woman and you're just not it. Or it may be that you didn't give him enough of a chase. But there is something you can do about this.

Men like chasing women. They thrive on the thrill of the chase. Maybe it's an old hunting instinct coming out in them. If a woman gives herself to a man too easily, or if she makes him think that he's the only one for her after only a few dates, he may lose interest fast.

Whether you want to get your ex back, or you want to make your man call you or you just want that guy who stopped calling you to find the interest he once had, you're going to have to work on some things that will attract a man to you and make him want to call. You're going to have to make him realize that he does like you and that he does want to chase you.

It's important to stop sitting by the phone moping about why he doesn't call. Get up, call a friend and go find something fun to do. You have a life too. Stop sitting around waiting for him to call you and enjoy yourself.

One of the best ways to do this is to make him think you're not interested in him at all. This is why you should go out and spend time with friends instead of sitting by the phone. When he does call, you'll honestly be able to say you've been busy going out, shopping, meeting with friends or doing all kinds of things without him.

Make him wonder what you are thinking when you act like you don't care, then act like you do. Really confuse him. Don't call him, make him call you. Don't answer his call or call him back right away when he leaves a message. This tells him that you have a life and you're not sitting around by the phone waiting for him. If he compliments you, don't gush over it; just shrug it off like all the guys tell you that.

The bottom line is that if you make a guy think that he's just one in a long line of guys who wants to date you, he's going to be hooked. He's going to think that he has to stand out from the other guys, treat you like a queen, and be on his best behavior or else he'll lose you. Even if you're not his type, if you act aloof, and act like you don't care, he'll have to chase you. It's in his DNA.

If you do this, if you play the game, if you act like you don't care, and then suddenly you do, and then you pull back again, this will drive any man wild with desire. You can get your ex back simply by letting him chase you for a while instead of you chasing him. Then you'll never have to wonder why he didn't call. You'll probably have to tell him to stop calling you so often because he'll be hooked for sure.

For great advice from Tigress on winning a man's attraction back, please visit http://howtobeirresistibletomen.net to find out what the ONE THING is that makes a man fall in love, stay in love, and return to love.

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Today's Inspiration, Poem or Quote:

"My challenge now is to not fall into the trap of thinking about my ex. I see her around town and she tries to make eye contact but I ignore her for my own emotional safety." ~Found on the Internet

"I certainly do hate my ex girlfriend. But you can't have real hate without love and love is always worth it, no matter what. Despite any sentimentality, however, I rather still hope she gets hit by a bus." ~ Found on the Internet

Today's Prayer or Thought:

"Allowing myself to be continually hurt by someone's actions is not a healthy part of loving someone. There is a fine line between "healthy, loving commitment" and "toxic attachment". Only I have control over my choice to live my life in happiness, or in my own misery. No one can create my own Heaven and Hell. Only I have the option over denying or accepting it to be.

Today I'll stop denying the truth if abuse is happening in my life, and begin taking responsibility for the choices I make." ~ Tigress Luv, The Break Up Guru.

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Thank you for reading this week's newsletter! As always, I welcome feedback and new ideas for future newsletters.

Have a great week everyone!

Tiggy

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