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Daily Break Up Inspiration - Hopelessness

Daily Break Up Inspiration
by Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru, Taken from

(You may read Tigress Luv's advice on Winning an Ex Back here, or Getting Over a Broken Heart and Mending from a Breakup here)

“If you have a heart as warm as the sun, a mind as content as the morning dew and a soul as pure as an undiscovered island ... together you will make up a pretty inviting paradise for one to want to stay.” ~Tigress Luv


I have a website open to the general public where people who have gone through a breakup can leave messages; more than 90% of these posts are those by readers stating that they cannot possibly go on without their ex in their lives. These are desperate people who feel they don’t have a life without another person handing them one.

  It’s alarming the amount of hopelessness and anguish seen in these posts. These brokenhearted who leave a little piece of their desolation online truly cannot find any peace in their own existence. Though it is normal to miss an ex and to grieve for the loss of a relationship, it is not normal to feel that your reason for living has been removed, and that without this other person you cannot find daily serenity.

  It is detrimental to our well-being to believe that only another can make us happy. When we have no sense of who we are without being attached to another, we take away our attractiveness and, ironically, may instigate the very breakup we grieve over.

  ~Today I will be responsible for my own serenity.

  Today I will realize that I, and I alone, am responsible for bringing my own sun up in the morning. I am responsible for my own peace and blessedness. If I am upset or distraught I will not blame anyone else other than me. Others may do harmful things but it is always my choice to let them affect my happiness or not. I have control over my own actions and reactions and today I will choose to control my actions and reactions by not allowing others to influence my emotions, feelings and senses.

  If today I find myself hurt by another’s actions I will simply let the pain go and give it back to them. It will not be my choice to hold on to, or to allow any pain to penetrate my serenity and peace of mind. Today I choose to not be influenced by others.


  “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” ~Albert Einstein

  “Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself - no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are - completely; the good and the bad - and make changes as YOU see fit - not because you think someone else wants you to be different.” ~ Stacey Charter

  “Happiness is not the absence of problems but the ability to deal with them.” H. Jackson (Jack) Brown Jr.

  “People love others not for who they are but for how they make them feel.” ~Irwin Federman

  “Seek your inner harmony from things that cannot be taken away from you – such as yourself. That way you’ll never be without serenity.” ~Tigress Luv


Breakup Inspiration, Hopelessness - Inspiration by Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru (you may read more of Tigress Luv's advice on Winning an Ex Back here, or Getting Over a Broken Heart and Mending from a Breakuphere)



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