Daily Break Up Inspiration
by Tigress Luv,
The Breakup Guru, Taken from http://dailybreakupinspirations.com/
(You may read Tigress Luv's advice on Winning an Ex Back here, or Getting Over a Broken Heart and Mending
from a Breakup here)
“One love isn't all consuming, but
one heartbreak can be.” ~Tigress Luv
Love is nice, no doubt, and the beginning stages of a new, blossoming
relationship can be the nearest thing to Utopia here on Earth.
But the ending can be Hell on Earth.
One of the most consuming tribulations one can experience is the loss of love. We
grieve the loss of companionship, the loss of intimacy, and the loss of having
someone know us better than even we, ourselves, do.
We grieve the loss of feeling like we belong somewhere and feeling like we mean
something to someone.
We also experience the loss of our future dreams and hopes. Ironically, we may
grieve more for what will never be, than for losing what once was.
Oftentimes, it is the loss of this ‘perceived future’ that hurts the most.
Because of the extreme despair that we experience, the rush of sad emotions,
and the utter feelings of emptiness, we can sometimes add more power to the
breakup than it deserves. We tend to make it bigger than life, and in doing so
we also tend to make our ex ‘bigger than life’, too. To our grieving hearts,
they become invaluable and unavailable all at the same time.
In fact, nothing makes one appear more desirable than its unavailability. Toy
companies and electronic companies have known this secret for years. Make a
product scarce and limited, and people will line up with weapons… and sleeping
bags… in frigid weather… outside of a store… at 3 a.m. ... in hopes of
~Today I will see how losing my partner may have made him or her seem more
valuable to me than they actually are. Today I will take the time to honestly
see him or her for whom they really are, faults and flaws and issues and
limitations and all.
Today I will stop my grief from making my ex seem larger than life to me, and I
will come to understand that they are not as a god or a perfect being by any
means. Today reality will bring me back down to Earth and allow me to
realize that I can, and may, and probably will, do better.
Just for today I will make a list of my ex’s faults and flaws. Just for today I
will take a real, long, hard, honest look at exactly how my sorrow may have
falsely made him or her appear invaluable to my well-being.
Just for today I will see them for whom they really are. ~~
“Mankind has such limited vision;
the world is so much bigger
than the fine tuning we place upon it in our everyday lives.” ~Tigress Luv
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder and the
need just a little bit more than insane.” ~Tigress Luv
“In my last relationship I realized that my partner was self-centered,
self-serving, arrogant, ignorant, unfaithful, hypercritical, abusive, an
under-achiever, and an alcoholic. I was devastated when he broke up with me.”
“Time must be healing my broken heart, as I now know this... Your opinions of
me were wrong - I am not that bad. My opinions of you were wrong, too - you
weren't all that great.” ~Tigress Luv
Breakup Inspiration, Loss and Availibility - Inspiration by Tigress Luv,
The Breakup Guru (you may read more of Tigress Luv's advice on Winning an Ex Back here, or Getting Over a Broken Heart and Mending
from a Breakuphere)