Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
By Nicole Weirich
Lets face it, heartbreak is a
part of life, if not a way of life for some. Whether youve had your
heart broken once, or a million times, it has happened to you, and we all
know how horrible it can make you feel. You cant eat, you cant
sleep, NOTHING makes you happy. The one person you want to be with is the
one who kicked you to the curb. So stop pining over someone who isnt
there anymore, because you deserve someone who is going to love you, and
want to be with you.
Distance. This is key in order to get
over someone. If you dont distance yourself from them physically, then
you will NEVER get over them. If it takes switching gyms and changing your
morning coffee routine to stay away from then, then I say do it because if
you are constantly seeing this person, then your feelings for them are going
to keep on coming back time and time again. The less you see them, the less
youre going to think about them.
Not only do you need to be away from
that person, but you also need to be away from their stuff. Yes, their stuff
needs to go. If youre nice, then you can give it back to them, but
if youre feeling a little anger, then sure go ahead and throw it in
the trash. However you do it, just do it! Believe me, you will feel a weight
lifted off your shoulders. By getting rid of their personal belongings it
is symbolizing letting go of the relationship. You are showing him/her that
you are over it and over them. Nothing will feel more powerful.
Now that youre not seeing them,
or staring at their stuff in your apartment, one more step needs to be taken.
We are all guilty of the post-break-up phone calls, or nowadays texts. Sure
make whatever excuse you want for contacting them, but lets face it, youre
just trying to hold on to something that just isnt there anymore. They
dont want to talk to you, if they did then they wouldnt have
broken up with you in the first place. There is nothing more annoying, and
creepy than 15 missed phone calls from your ex. So hang up!
So youve finally started moving
on, or at least you act like it. Now the ultimate way to get over someone
is to find someone new. Some might call it a rebound, but whatever you call
it, I call it a solution. Sure you may be only dating this person to get
over your ex, but whatever works, I say do it. They say the best way to get
over someone, is to get under someone else. So find someone new to like,
someone new to fall asleep next to, someone elses junk to throw in
your closet. Youll be saying (insert exs name here) who in no
time at all.
So just remember these three words.
Let It Go. Because they have.
And breaking up is hard to do!
About the Author:
To find someone to get under
now, visit DateHookup.com Personals,
a 100% free dating service.
published by Tigress Luv & Glass Slipper Publishing, the Breakup Gurus. For more
breakup advice and forums please join us at the Lifted Hearts Breakup
Support Forums & Community at http://liftedhearts.com.
Stop your breakup here!