By Tigress Luv & Glass
Slipper Publishing (You may join our mailing list by clicking here)
our relationships fail we can get in an awfully bad slump of
depression. Friends, family, and even casual acquaintances talk to us
and we reply, sometimes pretending interest or feigning an excited or
happy response - both of which we totally fabricate on the fly because
our souls are so depressed that we wouldn't dare reveal them to anyone
else. The truth be known, we could care less who is talking to us, and
we could care even less what they are saying to us.
All we can think is "Oh, woe...this all sucks; my life sucks.
Why don't they just shut up and leave me alone with my misery?"
Unfortunately, often times we can get 'comfortable' in this depressive
state, and, before we know it, we are walking around with a permanent
case of the blues ... a blues of which there is no cure for. We stop
living in the minute - in the 'now' - and we drag our sad past or our
dreaded future around with us everywhere we go.
In our report, 'The 45 Reasons Why He Dumped Your Ass',
and in our report 'How to Win Back Their attraction'
I talk about the 'now' moment. Both these reports can be found in this
week's special offer for you at http://howtobeirresistibletomen.net : Below is a condensed excerpt from these reports.
"When you drag around all your past injuries and injustices,
all your yesterday woe, and all your worry and fretting about your
tomorrow, you become U-G-L-Y! You drag people down with you and they do
not want to be around you. [You drag yourself both down and
under the fog even further, too!]
When you forget your tragic past, and learn to
live in the moment - in the NOW - you create a happy, joyful magic
energy that makes people radiate towards you, wanting to be closer to
When you drag around your bag of issues with you
everywhere you go, you create an uncomfortable feeling in the people
that are close to you. They soon become codependent on your bad mood
and start feeling unhappy when they are around you. Their mental status
is directly related to yours.
Create a magical energy! It doesn't matter what
you look like, how successful you are in life, how compassionate, how
intelligent, or how wonderful - if you don't have that special spark of
'energy' you're dead to others.
Remember my friend, Annalisa, from some of my
ebooks? She possesses that magical energy."
If you feel negative on the inside, odds are you are not emitting that
magical energy. Energy is like a magic aura that surrounds your being.
A person can pick up on your energy just by watching you walk by. (Men,
especially, are attracted by the vibes, the spark - he senses her
'energy' and it excites him.)
When you feel negative on the inside, you become negative on the
outside. Both of these negativities feed off of each other and create
an ominous outcome. You become 'stuck' in the blues.
Living in the moment and letting go of the past - a past which swallows
up every one of your todays and your tomorrows - will bring you a peace
of mind unlike no other, as well as making your blues instantly
disappear and attracting the opposite sex to you like bees to honey.
Living in this 'moment' - and not yesterday's - makes you feel good
about yourself. You become an optimistic and energetic person. When you
are really feeling good about yourself - and when you really feel good
about life, the world around you, and people in general - when you are
in touch with this energized karma you tend to emit this 'energy' in
every move you make. Energy is optimistic. It shows in your walk, your
posture, your laugh. Your sparkle. You shine as only you can. That is a positive and attractive
If you have a lifetime worth of unresolved issues clear them out of the
way before you get involved with anyone. Never bring unresolved issues
into a new relationship. Don't put them in a sack, sling them over your
shoulder, and drag them around with you everywhere you go. Don't wear a
big band-aid and judge every future mate you may meet on one bad
experience in the past.
If you cannot clear away your issues, then bury them and be done with
them. Stop dancing with ghosts.
Inspiration, Poem or Quote:
"You can take away my heart and you can take away
my reason to wake up in the morning, but you can't take away my ability
to take them right back from you." ~Tigress Luv, the Breakup
Prayer or Thought:
"This week let me remember that my tomorrows are all there
waiting for me to write them as I want them to be. My life from here
forward is an open slate, and I am the author of it.
week let me find the courage to move forth and write my own,
fascinating new life story."
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Thank you for reading this week's newsletter, Breakups, the blues, and depression. How to stop being sad! As always, we welcome
feedback and new ideas for future newsletters.
Have a great week everyone!
Tigress Luv &
Glass Slipper Publications