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Breakups and Bad Attitudes
The Bad Attitude Breakup - by the Breakup Gurus - Break Up
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'Bad Attitude' Breakup...
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Good week everyone! Well, this week we
received an email from a subscriber who requested that we do more
newsletters with tips for winning an ex back. Hmmm? I guess we have
been lacking in that area lately !!! So we decided this week
we would share a small excerpt from our ebook, "How to Win Back Their
Attraction" (which can be found at http://winbacktheirattraction.com).
Below is just one of the tips from a list of our many in the ebook! :)
The Breakup Attitude.
When it comes to winning back your attraction, remember that your
attitude is everything. When we live in the sadness of our past
experiences, or in the dread of the future, we get ATTITUDE! And it
isn't a good one, either - it's a BAD ATTITUDE, and
we are all guilty of it.
Our bad attitudes develop over years of disappointments and letdowns.
It grows through our attempts at controlling others' thoughts and
actions, and it escalates when we refuse to see that we actually have
NO control over others.
We then feed our bad attitudes by resisting our present breakup
situations, instead of accepting the life we have and the people we
share our life with. Instead of living in the joy of each moment we
obsessively dwell on our problems, and hardships. We over-think our
lives and our problems, or we hide from our thoughts in numbing drugs
or alcohol, or engage in other obsessive activities such as hobbies or
shopping or even our jobs.
All in a feeble effort to escape our reality.
And, unfortunately, our reality is simply a collection of false
concepts - the mere leftovers from bad experiences and past negative
events that shaped the way we now see our reality. Our reality is never
based on the here and now. It is never real.
It takes a change in the way we perceive things in order to reshape our
reality and learn to let go and live in the moment... And get the
attitude that attracts and not repels.
The best way to get rid of your bad attitude is to rewrite your life
story. That is, rewrite it 'positively'. Sit down and write your life
story - only leave all the negative stuff out and only write about the
positive experiences and fun times you've had since you were born. You
will be surprised how hard it is to remember good experiences because
for some reason our minds tend to dwell on those times in our life
where things didn't go quite right.
Bad attitudes and codependency often go hand in hand. The bad breakup
attitude is caused by our failed efforts to change and control those
around us, and by our inability to stop resisting what we don't like
and accept it as it is.
To stop resisting your current situation, you need to surrender to the
reality of it - and the reality of the players in it. They are who they
are. You cannot control them. You cannot alter them. And you cannot
change them by willing or demanding it to be so. The only time you will
ever be able to change someone or something is by creating a change in
Also visit my advice on restoring a broken relationship!
NOTE: The article abovce is the Bad Attitude Breakup - by the Breakup Gurus - Break Up Support Blog and Newsletter
Inspiration, Poem or Quote:
are the moments of your life, so celebrate them!" ~
Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru
Prayer or Thought:
how perfect this moment can be. Stop your complaining, seek out the
positive, and find the gift of beauty that surrounds you. Accept the
moment for what it is, and stop trying to change, alter, or escape it.
Just go with the flow of it and let it take you where it will! "
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Thank you for reading this week's newsletter! As always, we welcome
feedback and new ideas for future newsletters.
Have a great week everyone!
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Luv, The Breakup Guru
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