If You are Irresistibly Attractive to
Yourself Others Will be Irresistibly Attracted to
You
(The following is an excerpt from the book, How to Win Back Their
Attraction!, which can be found at
http://winbacktheirattraction.com)
What if you could fall in love with yourself? How would you treat you?
Would you buy yourself gifts? Would you cook yourself a nice meal? Would
you take yourself out to dinner and a movie? Yes!
And what do you do that makes you feel proud about yourself? When was the
last time you made you proud? Can you find some things to do just for you;
things that will make you feel proud of you? Can you fix the things
that you are not proud of, and focus on doing the things that you are proud
of? Can you learn to do what makes you feel good about you?
It's funny, but true, that we spend a great deal of time doing things that
we hope will make others feel happy, but actually very little time doing
things that make us feel happy. We do good things for others as a way to
compensate; cover up; mask; or hide from our own feelings of a lack of self-worth
or self-esteem. Without self-worth nothing you do will ever be good enough
to make you feel whole and complete by and within yourself.
Becoming irresistibly attracted to you begins with gaining a higher self-esteem
(and that starts with dumping the negativity and rewriting your gloomy life
story). It helps to remember that nobody is better than you, but yet we almost
ALL feel that somebody - almost everybody - is better than us. It's funny
if you think about it, but the odds are in your favor that for whomever you
think is better than you is a person who probably is thinking that you
are better than them!
Unfortunately, if you don't feel a high level of attraction to yourself,
and if you don't possess a strong sense of self-worth, then other people
will find it hard to be attracted to you, as well. One way to boost your
feelings of self-worth and attractiveness is to do something that will make
you feel really good about yourself. This can be accomplished in a number
of different ways, from making a commitment to lose ten pounds and actually
doing it to remodeling your home, helping out at the senior center,
or finishing a marathon for a worthy cause.
It is important that you remember self-worth comes with putting yourself
first and by the ability to stop defining yourself through your role
in life or through your role as a partner, employee, or friend. In order
to be attractive you have to have a true and real developed sense of self.
You have to have a definitive sense of you.
And you have to learn to be selfish.
By being selfish you get rid of your neediness of others to do and
make and define you! You do it yourself. You define
yourself. You identify and take care of your own needs. You are irresistibly
ATTRACTIVE to YOU!
By Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru
Have they lost their attraction to you? Want to learn how to win
back their attraction to you? Then visit, How to Win Back Their
Attraction!, at
http://winbacktheirattraction.com or for help with any breakup or
relationship issue, please visit Tigress Luv and The Lifted Hearts Community
at http://liftedhearts.com
The
above article is an excerpt from the book, How to Win Back Their
Attraction!, at
http://winbacktheirattraction.com
About the Author:
Tigress Luv, the Break Up Guru, has been mending broken hearts and repairing
broken relationships for years. You can read more about her works
here.
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the pain of breakup, please read How to
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