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Become Irresistibly Attractive
How to Become Attractive and Attract Love
into Your Life, by the Breakup Gurus
If You are Irresistibly
Attractive to Yourself Others Will be Irresistibly Attracted to You
(The following is an excerpt from the book, How to Win Back
Their Attraction!, which can be found at http://winbacktheirattraction.com)
What if you could fall in love with yourself? How would you treat you?
Would you buy yourself gifts? Would you cook yourself a nice meal?
Would you take yourself out to dinner and a movie? Yes!
And what do you do that makes you feel proud about yourself? When was
the last time you made you proud? Can you find some things to do just
for you; things that will make you feel proud of you?
Can you fix the things that you are not proud of, and focus on doing
the things that you are proud of? Can you learn to do what makes you
feel good about you?
It's funny, but true, that we spend a great deal of time doing things
that we hope will make others feel happy, but actually very little time
doing things that make us feel happy. We do good things for others as a
way to compensate; cover up; mask; or hide from our own feelings of a
lack of self-worth or self-esteem. Without self-worth nothing you do
will ever be good enough to make you feel whole and complete by and
Becoming irresistibly attracted to you begins with gaining a higher
self-esteem (and that starts with dumping the negativity and rewriting
your gloomy life story). It helps to remember that nobody is better
than you, but yet we almost ALL feel that somebody - almost everybody -
is better than us. It's funny if you think about it, but the odds are
in your favor that for whomever you think is better than you is a
person who probably is thinking that you are better
Unfortunately, if you don't feel a high level of attraction to
yourself, and if you don't possess a strong sense of self-worth, then
other people will find it hard to be attracted to you, as well. One way
to boost your feelings of self-worth and attractiveness is to do
something that will make you feel really good about yourself. This can
be accomplished in a number of different ways, from making a commitment
to lose ten pounds and actually doing it to
remodeling your home, helping out at the senior center, or finishing a
marathon for a worthy cause.
It is important that you remember self-worth comes with putting
yourself first and by the ability to stop defining
yourself through your role in life or through your role as a partner,
employee, or friend. In order to be attractive you have to have a true
and real developed sense of self. You have to have a definitive sense
And you have to learn to be selfish.
By being selfish you get rid of your neediness of others to do and make and define you!
You do it yourself. You define yourself. You identify and take care of
your own needs. You are irresistibly ATTRACTIVE to YOU!
they lost their attraction to you? Want to learn how to win back their
attraction to you? Then visit, How to Win Back Their
Attraction!, at http://winbacktheirattraction.com or for help with any
breakup or relationship issue, please visit The Lifted Hearts
Breakup Support Forums & Community at http://liftedhearts.com
The above article is
an excerpt from the book, How to Win Back Their Attraction!,
Learn more about how to become attractive and attract love into your life, by the Breakup Gurus, by purchasing the online report above!
Publishing (the Break Up Gurus), have been mending broken hearts and
repairing broken relationships for years. You can read more about our
works at http://glass-slipper-publishing.com.
more information about getting over the pain of breakup, please read How to Get Over a Breakup
Thank you for visiting! Tigress
Luv, The Breakup Guru
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